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I did it to myself.

Fractured elbow

What a fractured elbow looks like.

I recently fractured my elbow when I tripped in the garage over a sleeping bag. I was carrying groceries and tripped, hit my head on a chair (heard it crack), craned my neck and landed on my arm. I sat up, my arm in great pain and at first I thought it may be broken. I could barely move it. I was wondering how I would get off the floor; my sore arm being my predominate one. Somehow I managed to get up using my other arm and went in to the house to call my husband. I was still a little in shock, and I hadn’t brought in all the groceries into the house.

My husband was on his way to the store and he asked if I wanted him to turn around and I said no, just get home as soon as you can…I knew he wouldn’t be long. He said, “Don’t worry about the groceries, I’ll bring them in.”

I said, “That was what I was going to ask you, with my voice wavering.” Funny what worries you…

That evening I debated whether I should take a trip to the Doctor or not and by morning decided I should. I got in at 10 a.m. and found out I had a fractured elbow.

I told my husband that I’m not supposed to lift anything with it and I’m supposed to get a sling. The first thing out of his mouth? “How are you going to cook?”

What have I done? I have been doing too much for my family; so much that they don’t think or know how to cope when I am indisposed. It’s my own fault. I really knew better, but when you love someone you WANT to do things for them.

The problem is, it is enabling them to become dependent. It may go against the grain of how you feel, but it is kinder to make them do things for themselves or at least take turns with tasks.

As women, we need to demand respect. And if we behave in a way that encourages their dependence it is interpreted as weakness. Subconsciously they see you with less respect because you do not appear to respect yourself enough to demand something from them.

I know this may not seem like the case, but our psyches are still programed with these ancient perceptions—if a person is “serving” others it is perceived as submission…weakness.

How can we fix it?

Ah, a difficult question. Start asking more of them a little bit at a time, increasing your demands slowly until you no longer feel taken for granted. If you think you don’t feel that way, you are kidding yourself. You do. You long to be treated as you treat them, and they will, if you demand respect. Another step to take is to take better care of yourself. Take the time to paint your nails, exercise, read, have a hobby. This will also bring respect.

What will this do for our children? It will be a good example for them so they too will be respected. So they will take care of themselves.

This does not mean you won’t perform acts of kindness.—You still should, but in a more limited way. If you limit how much you bestow your act of love on them, they will appreciate it more, rather than taking it for granted. I know it doesn’t seem like it lines up with the teachings of Christ, but he teaches us to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. That means we must love ourselves. This sounds like a paradigm of equality to me.

Tell me your stories and how you have coped…oh, and even though I know better, I have to be reminded over and over to put this to practice myself.

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The Real Story of the Ressurection of Messiah

By Kathy Mullens

Every year at Easter, Christians attend sunrise services and churches are filled with Followers eager to commemorate the resurrection of their Savior, Jesus.  This is one of the holiest days on the Christian church’s calendar.  But when we read the scriptural account of His death and resurrection with an understanding of the Biblical calendar in mind, we readily see that Easter is not the time of Messiah Jesus’ resurrection.  The Biblical account of His story as seen from a Hebrew perspective is much more enriching.

We will look at the Biblical festival known as, “First Fruits,” the actual day of His resurrection.

In the Hebrew tongue “First Fruits” is “Bikkurim (Fruits) Alef (First)” But in order to understand the significance of the Festival, we need a brief overview of time from God’s perspective.

We are told in Deuteronomy 16:1 when to start our festivals.

“Observe the month of Aviv, and keep the Passover to Yehovah Elohaycha, for in the month of Aviv, Yehovah Elohaycha brought you out of Egypt at night.”

On our Gregorian calendars, there is no month of Aviv. But there is a way in which Israel is to determine the month of Aviv.

In the fall of each year, a patch of barley is planted on the Mount of Olives in Israel . At the end of the Biblical month of Adar, the Sanhedrin goes to the barley patch to check the stage of growth. If the barley has green ears of grain they will pronounce, at the evening of the new moon, that the new month has begun the month of Nissan. However, if the green grain isn’t present, they will pronounce at the new moon, the month is to be Adar II. In this way, the calculation of when the New Year actually begins isn’t dependent on man but on God.

The barley crop is planted during the month of Heshvan, around October or November on our calendars. It takes about 120 days, or about 4 months, for the barley to ripen and become ready to harvest. It was planted at a time that would allow it to ripen by Passover.

When the Priests went to the Mount of Olives to check on the development of the barely harvest, it would be up to God’s provision of rain and sun to determine when the barley was ripe, or “aviv.”

Now let’s look at the festival, the celebration, the rehearsal, that is known as Bikkurim Alef. The scripture reference is Leviticus 23:9-14

“And YeHoVaH spoke to Moses saying, ‘Speak to the Children of Israel, and say to them:

When you come into the land I am giving you and harvest its ripe crops, you are to bring a sheaf of the first fruits of your harvest to the priest. He is to wave the sheaf before Yehovah, so that you will be accepted; the priest is to wave it after the Sabbath. On the day that you wave the sheaf, you are to offer a male lamb without defect, in its first year, as a burnt offering for Yehovah. Its grain offering is to be one gallon of fine flour mixed with olive oil, an offering made by fire to Yehovah as a fragrant aroma; its drink offering is to be of wine, one quart. You are not to eat bread, dried grain or fresh grain until the day you bring the offering for your Elohaycha; this is a permanent regulation through all your generations, no matter where you live.’”

The Sabbath in verse 11 was referring to the Sabbath of Passover.  Verse 7 tells us that Passover is a Sabbath, regardless of what day of the week it falls on.

The Spring Feasts point to Jesus’ first coming and we celebrate them today as anniversaries.  The Fall Feasts refer to His second coming, and we observe them as rehearsals for events yet to be fulfilled.

We will examine this festival of First Fruits to see how it relates to Jesus and his first coming and why we celebrate it as an anniversary.

On Nissan 1 the priests declare the month to be Nissan because the barley is “aviv.”

On Nissan 14 is the Festival of Passover and is the beginning of the Feast of Unleavened Bread. This is the day Jesus went to the execution stake and offered His life for your sins and mine.

On Nissan 17 is the Festival of Bikkurim Alef, or, First Fruits.

On Nissan 14, before the Passover sacrifice, the High Priest and the Harvester go from the Temple Mount to the Mount of Olives to the barley patch. The harvester walks through this barley patch to find the best of the barley and ties a red ribbon around a sheaf, or, a handful. Then the two of them return to the Temple for the festivities of Nissan 14 (Passover.)

Two days later, on the 16th of Nissan, at sunset (which is now the 17th), the High Priest and the Harvester, accompanied by a group of witnesses will go back to the Mount of Olives , to the Sheaf of barley that was marked on the 14th. Once the sun sets three questions are asked.

The harvester makes ready to harvest the sheaf of barley, but stops and asks, “Has the sun set?” The group answers “Yes.” He asks again with the same response.

He asks, “With this sickle?” They answer, “Yes.”

“With this basket?”        “Yes.”

“On the Sahbbath?”       “Yes.”

On this Sabbath ?          “Yes.”

“Shall I reap?”                “They say, ‘Reap.’”

*(Mishnah pp 753,754)

The harvester cuts the sheaf of barley, hands it to the Priest and the Priest returns to the Temple .  The harvester and crowd then reap the rest of the barley and process it. That night the streets of Jerusalem are filled with sleeping men waiting for the Festival to begin.

Then, toward the morning, a flutiest begins to play in the streets as he makes his way to the Temple with the harvester and the men of Jerusalem following. They time their arrival to coincide with sunrise.

The Harvester presents a basket of harvested barley to the Priest who takes the basket in one hand and raises it toward heaven. Then, taking the sheaf of barley he violently hits the rim of the basket. He then raises both the basket and the sheaf and waves them before the Lord.

But what does this have to do with the resurrection of Jesus?  It was on the 14th of Nissan, the night of Passover that Jesus became our Passover sacrifice. In I Corinthians 5:7 we find.

“Get rid of the old leaven, so that you can be a new batch of dough, because in reality you are unleavened. For our Passover lamb, the Messiah has been sacrificed.”

The apostle Paul knew the activities surrounding the Festivals of Passover and First Fruits and recognized Jesus’ fulfillment of each of them.

You will recall that Jesus told his disciples that he would be in the grave for three days and three nights in Matthew 12:40  “For just as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the sea-monster, so will the Son of Man be three days and three nights in the depths of the earth.”

Jesus, our Passover Lamb, gave up his life at 3:00 in the afternoon of the 14th of Nissan.  This is day 1. That night is Night 1.  Of course at sunset it was now the 15th, day 2.  The sunset of that evening is day 2.  The day of the 16th is day 3.  The night of the 17th is night 3, and at sunrise on the 17th, He arose.  These are the three days He referred to.

The Festival of First Fruits immediately follows the Festival of Passover.  He was our sacrificial lamb, and on the appropriate day, He became our First Fruits as the first to arise from the dead.  He was the choicest and only appropriate “sheaf” to be offered before the Lord.  The red cord obviously speaks of His sacrifice in blood.

Now let’s look at Leviticus 23:10, 11:

“When you come into the land I am giving you and harvest its ripe crops, you are to bring a sheaf of the first fruits of your harvest to the Priest. He is to wave the sheaf before Yehovah, so that you will be accepted; the Priest is to wave it after the Sabbath.”

The word translated “sheaf” in this set of verses is the Hebrew word, “omer,” and is used 6 times in the scriptures. Another word for “sheaf” is used in other scriptures 8 times. The word “sheaf” is translated from:

ryme    aw-meer’ –which means a bunch of grain:–handful, sheaf. This word is found in Genesis 37:7 when Joseph is talking with his brothers about his dream. And in Zecheriah 12:6..

The other word that was translated “sheaf” is from the Hebrew word,

rme    o’-mer – properly, a heap, i.e. a sheaf; also an omer, as a dry measure:–omer, sheaf. This is found in here in Leviticus 23: 11, 12 and 15. And it is found in Deuteronomy 24:19 and in Job 24:10. But it’s interesting that when it is used in the Leviticus 23 passages, the word in Hebrew is et-omer. Let’s look at what it says.

11He is to wave the sheaf before Yehovah, so that you will be accepted; the cohen is to wave it after the Sabbath.”

The little word, “et,” is the Old Testament word for Jesus. Unless we offer this Et-Omer to our High Priest to be lifted up, we cannot be accepted.

When Jesus gave up His life on the day of Passover, became our pascal lamb offering.  Three days later, operating in the position of our Great High Priest, He sprinkled His redemptive blood on the Ark for the Covenant in Heaven, and presented Himself as our First Fruits from the grave before the Father as the “Et-Omer” so that we would be accepted.  He was sacrificed at Passover, and ascended into Heaven to offer His blood on the Festival of First Fruits, fulfilling each of these two spring Festivals on the exact days they were to be observed.

Jesus said,

“As for me, when I am lifted up from the earth, (First Fruits) I will draw everyone to myself.”

When the day comes for the gathering of the harvest of souls, will you be counted among those who have been redeemed by the Paschal lamb, and for whom the Et-omer has been waved?

No, we don’t celebrate Easter, a pagan festival to a man-made god. But we do observe Bikkurim Alef, the celebration of our Risen Lord.

(Hebrew or Jewish calendars are available online as well as at many bookstores.)

* Mishna is the Oral Torah

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My Journey from Brokenness to Restoration

BY RICHARD YASINSKI

I grew up in a dysfunctional alcoholic family. I had my first beer when I was 10. By the time I was 13 I think I had a drinking problem. I was always around alcohol. My mother worked in a bar and I remember many nights spending time with her in the bar until she closed for the night. I believe by the time I was 16, I was an alcoholic. I drank and used drugs to escape my feelings of being different than other kids who had “normal” families. I don’t blame my mother for my alcoholism. She worked hard at two different jobs trying to make ends meet and raise two young children as a single mother. My mother coped the way many people do, by trying to drink her problems away.

By the time I was in high school I was a full-fledged alcoholic and drug addict. I was spiraling out of control very quickly. My only solace was found in the bottle or some drug. I was in full escape mode, and I didn’t really care. At the request of a friend, who got himself cleaned up, I visited a small church and I heard for the first time in my life about the love of Jesus Christ. I couldn’t imagine how anyone, including God, could love a loser like me.

That day, in that small church, I accepted Christ as my Savior. He took away my desire for partying and gave me a new purpose to live. Shortly after, He called me into the ministry. I had a burning desire to tell others what Christ had done for me. I was free from drugs and alcohol for almost 23 years. Then it all caved in on me. I was diagnosed with a chronic intestinal disease known as ulcerative colitis. I was put on various drugs to help with the pain and discomfort of my illness. Finally I needed surgery to remove my colon and lived with a colostomy bag for one year. I continued taking medication and had three different surgeries during a two-year period. Needless to say I became very depressed during this time. After 23 years of not drinking, I picked up that first bottle as a way of self-medicating and getting some rest. Those first drinks of alcohol fueled a small burning ember that had been inside me for years. Of course my drinking was all done in secret—I was a pastor! Pastors aren’t supposed to have drinking problems. I kept it hidden for as long as I could. The guilt and shame only made me want to drink more. Within two years I was drinking just about every day. I knew I was in trouble, but who could I tell? I felt so alone.

The drinking helped at first because it helped me manage my stress and guilt. However, it didn’t take long for the bottom to drop out and I was in total bondage to this terrible illness. Finally I came clean with my church and told them about my drinking problem and I completely expected them to find another pastor. Instead, they gathered around me, prayed for me, and got me help. I spent 40 days in a recovery center in Florida. I am forever grateful to my real friends who didn’t judge me; they only wanted me to get well again. I am especially grateful to my wife for sticking by my side through it all.

Through much prayer and continued recovery I am still their pastor today. I will always be in some type of recovery. I don’t ever want to get to that desperate state of mind again. I am intentional about my recovery now. God has forgiven me but I know I must never become complacent again. The amazing thing is, my church still loves me! They have welcomed me back to be their pastor with feet of clay and all. They know I am not perfect and that feels good. Through this experience I have come to know God’s grace in new ways. I have been given a passion to help those who struggle with any addiction. God has used my story in so many ways already for His glory. I praise Him!

I know there are others who hurt and feel like they can’t come forward with their addiction because of guilt and shame. I want you to know there is freedom once you step out into the light. It’s hard, but you have people who understand and are willing to help you find true freedom. If you ever want to talk, I promise you complete confidentiality. Let’s get together and talk. You have a friend. Please take a few minutes and view these recovery links:
www.nacronline.com

recoverychapel.org

clergyrecovery.com

celebraterecovery.com.au

settingcaptivesfree.com

springfieldmoaa.org

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